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When you feel so low at one point in your life sometimes you might find yourself praying or asking friends for advice, maybe even feeling a bit remorseful for some heinous actions that you took during that time. Nevertheless, after you've seen the error in your ways, something good is bound to come out of it all. My life has come back, but it took a little derailment to get me back on track; a hard turn to make me realise that the road I was on was too dangerous to be on.
As we all know, people in our lives may come and go, but we all have that one special person who seems to come back around at times when we need them most. Maybe it's just a coincidence or a twist of fate, but when I was at one of my lowest points about a month ago, this person who I hold very dear to my heart happened to be back in town for a day.
Just seeing this person reminded me that all good things come out of the worst in life and being able to reflect on those things in a positive way will make you a stronger person.
No one gets confidence from holding grudges or staying angry at someone for the rest of their lives. It may takes years to find the courage to forgive someone for doing something that hurt you, but that courage will come, and when it does, you'll find yourself to be the better person in that situation.
I thought I was going crazy when I realized that this situation had hit me lit a brick, but in a metaphorically sense, I picked that brick up and threw it behind me, not holding it and waiting to get back at the person who threw it at me. You could be waiting years to throw that brick back, and that brick will become heavier and heavier as you age.
So chose to drop it, and move along with your shoulders dusted and your head held high.
No body could give me a full reason as to why this person in my life means so much to me, but I believe that the answer to that question lies within the passage of time; no matter where life takes us, we'll both know that we still care for the other, no matter what way that may be (platonically, romantically, etc.).
One thing is for certain is that each day when I think about this person, because they're the sweetest and most headstrong person to have ever known.
So to my readers and dreamers, never stop believing that there is goodness in everything and that you will rise above your anger and hard feelings. Life is too short to believe that wallowing in your heartache will bring prince charming marching up to your door step! You make that happen by going out into the world and finding yourself before you can find someone else.
Long may you dream!
As we all know, people in our lives may come and go, but we all have that one special person who seems to come back around at times when we need them most. Maybe it's just a coincidence or a twist of fate, but when I was at one of my lowest points about a month ago, this person who I hold very dear to my heart happened to be back in town for a day.
Just seeing this person reminded me that all good things come out of the worst in life and being able to reflect on those things in a positive way will make you a stronger person.
No one gets confidence from holding grudges or staying angry at someone for the rest of their lives. It may takes years to find the courage to forgive someone for doing something that hurt you, but that courage will come, and when it does, you'll find yourself to be the better person in that situation.
I thought I was going crazy when I realized that this situation had hit me lit a brick, but in a metaphorically sense, I picked that brick up and threw it behind me, not holding it and waiting to get back at the person who threw it at me. You could be waiting years to throw that brick back, and that brick will become heavier and heavier as you age.
So chose to drop it, and move along with your shoulders dusted and your head held high.
No body could give me a full reason as to why this person in my life means so much to me, but I believe that the answer to that question lies within the passage of time; no matter where life takes us, we'll both know that we still care for the other, no matter what way that may be (platonically, romantically, etc.).
One thing is for certain is that each day when I think about this person, because they're the sweetest and most headstrong person to have ever known.
So to my readers and dreamers, never stop believing that there is goodness in everything and that you will rise above your anger and hard feelings. Life is too short to believe that wallowing in your heartache will bring prince charming marching up to your door step! You make that happen by going out into the world and finding yourself before you can find someone else.
Long may you dream!
